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Banoffee Pie–A British Treat

07 Monday Dec 2015

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SWEET TOOTH ALERT!

I’ve been addicted to the idea of banoffee pie since a British acquaintance told me about it four years ago. I even included the treat in a scene in Where There Is Will.

My hunt for banoffee pie on a recent trip to England was a bust, so I decided if I wanted to taste the delicacy (or what I presumed would be a delicacy), I’d have to make it myself. So I did. Twice. And the pie received rave reviews and requests for the recipe.

I didn’t follow a particular recipe. Instead, I mixed and matched different pieces from several recipes. But I’ve written down what I did, with what I hope is enough precision to come up with a decent pie if you decide to give it a go.

And I highly recommend you decide to give it a go–especially if you like your sweets sweet.

banoffee pie

Banoffee Pie—A British Treat

Ingredients

2 cans sweetened condensed milk

1 stick unsalted butter

10 ounces digestive biscuits

3 large bananas, sliced ¼ to ½ inch thick

1 ½ cups chilled heavy cream

1 ½ tablespoons granulated sugar

2 teaspoons instant coffee powder

Notes: Digestive biscuits are a plain British cookie, similar to a graham cracker. Look for them in the international section of your grocery store. If you can’t find them, substitute graham crackers.

Make the toffee in advance because it takes time to cook and cool. I’ve done it up to a week in advance with no ill effects.

Make the toffee:

If you can easily remove the labels from the cans of sweetened condensed milk, do so. (Otherwise you should remove them from the pot as soon as they slip off the can.) Put cans in a large pot (I use an 8-quart) and cover with water. Cover the pot and bring to a boil. Reduce heat slightly and let boil for 3 hours. Keep checking to make sure the cans remain covered with water. If the water level goes too low, add more water. When the 3 hours are up, use tongs to remove the cans from the pot and let cool.

Make the crust:

Melt the butter.

Make crumbs out of the digestive biscuits or graham crackers. I use a food processor but a rolling pin works too.

Mix butter and crumbs.

Press into the bottom and sides of a 9-inch pie pan, tart pan, or springform pan.

Make the filling:

Spread the toffee over the crust.

Distribute banana slices over the toffee, leaving no gaps between them. You might not use all the slices, or you might need to slice part of another banana.

Make the cream:

Add the chilled cream, granulated sugar, and coffee powder to a large mixing bowl. Whip until firm peaks form. Spread over pie filling.

Chill pie until ready to serve. If you want to cover the pie, I suggest doing so before whipping the cream. Spread the banana slices with a little lemon juice and cover with waxed paper before putting on the cream. When ready to serve, whip the cream and spread over the filling.

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Reducing germs in your life

13 Friday Jun 2014

Posted by Monica Epstein in Health, Middle-aged woman

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Reducing Germs: Washing hands

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Everyone knows that washing hands often is one of the easiest ways to reduce the risk of illness. But did you know that according to research published in the Journal of Environmental Health, only five percent of people wash their hands properly after using the bathroom? My initial reaction is “yuck,” but after reading that one should lather up with soap and water for twenty seconds before rinsing, I’m not surprised. In fact, I’m guilty. If I know I’ve been exposed to a threat, such as being around someone with a cold, I might pay particular attention to my hand-washing method, but in general, I spend less than the required time scrubbing.

You do too. Admit it.

Wondering what else you can do to avoid germs? Along with hand washing, Women’s Health magazine suggests the following:

Carry dry hand sanitizer. It’s good to have a dry hand sanitizer handy (pun intended) in case there is no soap and water available.

Use metal water bottles. Use metal water bottles over plastic because bacteria adhere more to plastic than metal. And be sure to clean the metal bottle well after each use to eliminate any lingering germs. Confession time. I used to keep a plastic bottle of water in my car and sip from it for days. Eventually, I concluded this was an unsafe habit, and I stopped drinking from it,but it remained in my cup holder in case of emergency stickiness. Like when I eat apple slices while driving.

Clean your cell phones regularly. They are another big source of bacteria. Think about it. We touch that thing all day long, why shouldn’t it carry loads of germs? Combat them by cleaning your phone at least once a week with an alcohol-free wipe, then dry it with a super-soft cloth.

Keep your work area clean. Regular cleaning of your entire work environment with a disinfectant wipe will help keep the germs at bay. I’ll add that this practice probably isn’t such a bad idea for your home work area, that is, your laptop, house phones, etc., either.

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Image courtesy of Stuart Miles / FreeDigitalPhotos.net

Monitor your make-up. Clean your brushes once a week and your make up bag once a month. Liquid products used around the eye, such as eyeliner and mascara, are particularly vulnerable to bacterial growth, and, therefore, eye contamination. There are differing opinions on when to dispose of these products, but I think it’s safe to say that you should keep them no more than a year, maybe less. Check all make up products for their recommended expiration dates.

Scrub your purse. It contains more bacteria than the average toilet seat. Now there is a not-so-pleasant piece of data. If you own a cloth purse, you can machine wash using the delicate cycle and cold water. For leather, use a disinfectant wipe inside and out. I can identify with this. I often put my purse places I know I shouldn’t, like the bathroom floor or under my chair in a restaurant or coffee shop. They make portable purse hooks you can use to hang your purse on a table, but I’m skeptical of using them because they take up table space. Some restaurant tables are so tight to begin with; hang a purse next to you and you’re taking up more than your allotted space, probably using some of your neighbor’s precious property.

How do you feel about purse hooks?

Do you have other suggestions for reducing germs in your life?

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How does the middle-aged woman make headlines?

25 Friday Apr 2014

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It sounds like the beginning of a bad joke. Maybe in some offbeat way it is.

To find topics for this blog, I set a Google Alert for the phrase “middle-aged woman”. Each day I get a headline and snippet of web articles that contain this phrase. Rarely do I find a topic I want to write about.

What comes with frequency, however, are the headlines that turn my stomach and make me wonder what is wrong with the world. I recognize that there are cultural differences worldwide, but we are all human. Don’t we all deserve equal respect?

Do gruesome headlines play on the same innate curiosity that makes us turn towards, rather than away from, accident scenes? Witnessing an accident leaves me unsettled for days, wondering what happened to the injured. No good comes of my observation. Don’t gruesome stories have the same effect?

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Old lady habits? Me?

02 Wednesday Apr 2014

Posted by Monica Epstein in Life moments, Middle-aged woman

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habits, humor, midlife

I don’t know exactly when it began, but I realize now that I’ve become an old woman. Not old in the sense of age, I still have many more years left in me. But old in the sense of habits. When I was in my twenties and thirties,  fully aware of the warning signs , I swore I would not succumb when I got older.

I succumbed.

What do I mean by old lady habits? For one, I carry a sweater or pashmina on occasion, in case it’s chilly. I don’t mean chilly outside, I mean chilly inside, like the air is more conditioned than I need. Or maybe I’m the unlucky one sitting under the vent. Whatever the reason, I’m cold, and I don’t like it.

Two, my knees, ankles, and feet snap, crackle, pop more than a large bowl of Rice Krispies. Forget any plan to sneak around the house. No midnight snacks for me. My bones and joints announce my presence like an updated version of Ed McMahon. “Heeeeeerrrrrrrrrrrrrrre’s Monica!” However, no one applauds my arrival like they did for Johnny Carson.

(See I am getting old. I reference people who were on television twenty years ago.)

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Introducing…

06 Sunday Oct 2013

Posted by Monica Epstein in Middle-aged woman

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I am so excited to introduce my new website banner and Facebook fan page cover! (You can view the cover here) I’ve been working with a great graphic artist, Talya, and she’s done a great job of capturing what I was looking for. Check out Talya’s website here.

To celebrate the new design, I’m rolling out a new blog too. I’ll be covering topics I hope to be of interest to middle-aged women– from health to fashion, beauty to finance–whatever appeals to me at the time I write. If there are any topics you’d like me to cover, use the “Contact Me” page to let me know.

I hope to make at least one post a week, but as we all know too well, sometimes other things take precedence (like family, health, work, and a great chapter I just can’t stop writing 😉 ). I’d love for you to follow me, and if you like what I have to say, please share my posts with your friends.

I’m kicking off my blog with a series about mistakes middle-aged women make when it comes to fashion and beauty. I hope you enjoy it.

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